Or it’s a woman in a new relationship –she’s living with her partner but regularly texts and meets her ex for coffee, and wonders if he’s really the one that she’s destined to be with after all.
Or maybe it’s a husband who left home to be with his lover but misses his wife and children terribly and wonders if he’s made the biggest mistake of his life.
But the most helpful question we can ask is likely to be ‘why’?
For people who sext, it tends to be curiosity and maybe boredom with the hum drum of everyday life that makes sexting an attractive distraction.
The need to feel desired can be a big motivator too.
One of the main problems when sexting happens outside of the relationship is that you find it has a different meaning for each of you.
They can talk about what might happen and talking to them is confidential.
In case you missed the big news, Kim Kardashian headed to the popular app where she posted video of a phone call between Kanye West and Taylor Swift .Your school will have ways of dealing with these sorts of problems and can confiscate mobiles if they believe they have sexual images on them.Reporting an image or video If you’re under 18 and an indecent or nude pic of you is posted online, that's illegal. You can contact the website directly yourself or make a report about what’s happened to the Internet Watch Foundation (IWF), who will speak to the website to try and remove it. Making a report can be scary, but our counsellors are here to support you.It is obvious that sometimes sexting gets followed up by actually meeting that person or vice versa and for most partners, this would be far more serious.Most people would want to know how long it’s been going on and if there have been other ‘sextees’ in the past.This means that if you pressure someone into taking a photo or you share a sexual photo with someone, you’re breaking the law.